When we take the leap and welcome a furry friend into our lives, home, and family, we anticipate all of the joy and companionship that they will bring. However, what we may not realize is that from the moment that they look up at us with those endearing big eyes until the day we see their captivating eyes to their soul for the last heart-wrenching time, they teach us invaluable lessons about leadership. Yes, you read that right! Our fur babies, especially of the canine species, can be excellent teachers and mentors in the art of leadership. We invite you to embark on this journey from the puppy stage to seniorhood and explore the key leadership lessons they impart at each phase.
The Puppy Stage
Key Lessons: Patience and Praise
Remember the day you brought home your little fur ball? Excitement and mystery filled the air. Just like a newborn puppy, new leaders often find themselves in unfamiliar territory. You must establish routines, boundaries, and provide guidance. At times, you may even question your decisions. However, you know the journey ahead will be worth it.
Puppies teach us patience. They need constant supervision, guidance, and training. As leaders, we learn that effective leadership requires patience in nurturing and developing our team members. Furthermore, puppies teach us that praise and rewards work far better than reprimanding. If we want them to mind some of the most important behaviors, we must celebrate the ones they appropriately exhibit with praise and treats. People respond similarly, and catching them doing right is far more productive than catching them doing wrong.
The Young Adult Stage
Key Lessons: Exploration and Consistency
As your puppy grows into a young adult dog, they start testing boundaries, exploring their surroundings, and asserting their independence. This stage mirrors the transition from follower to emerging leader in human terms. (How many of you had to chase your dog through the neighborhood because your four-legged friend craved freedom and adventure, leaving you to pant and realize you are not as in shape as you thought you were?)
Our adult dogs teach us the importance of consistency. They thrive on routine and clear expectations. Similarly, in leadership, consistency in communication, decision-making, and behavior builds trust and respect among team members.
Mid-Life Stage
Key Lessons: Confidence and Adaptability
In the prime of their lives, dogs become more settled and confident. They understand their purpose in their family or pack, and they exhibit loyalty and dedication. This stage reflects the seasoned leader who has honed their skills and gained experience.
Mid-life dogs teach us about adaptability. They may face health challenges or changes in the family dynamic, yet they adapt and remain resilient. (My late Yorkie, Snuggie, did this effortlessly with the additions of my daughter and son.) Likewise, leaders must adapt to changes in the business environment, technology, and team dynamics while staying focused on their goals.
Senior Stage
Key Lessons: Wisdom and Compassion
As our furry friends age, they may slow down, face health issues, and require more care. This stage parallels the later years of a leader’s career, where they pass on their wisdom and experience to the next generation.
Senior dogs teach us about compassion and gratitude. They may require extra patience and care, but their love and loyalty never waver. Similarly, effective leaders show compassion towards their team members, recognizing their contributions and supporting them through challenges.
The Journey’s End
Key Lessons: Transition and Resilience
Finally, there comes the day when we have to say goodbye to our beloved companions. It’s a heart-wrenching moment, but even in their departure, they teach us one last lesson – resilience. Despite the pain of loss, we find the strength to carry on, cherishing the memories and lessons learned, and, perhaps, the strength to go on another journey with a new four-legged friend, not to replace them but to honor them. They teach us that love and loyalty never die and should always be paid forward if there is love and loyalty to give.
In conclusion, our fur babies, from the day we hold them for the first time to the day we feel their warm fur between our fingers for the last time, teach us invaluable lessons about leadership – patience, consistency, adaptability, compassion, resilience, and so many more. For all of us, who fell in love with fur babies, we also learned that they give us more than we give them. Who’s training and teaching who? When we have to say goodbye to our fur babies, we know this. We know that they lived a life of service to us. The best human leaders focus on service. So, the next time you interact with your dog with a walk, a game of fetch, or a cuddle, remember that they’re not just our loyal companions; they’re also our trusted mentors in leadership.
Dedications
I dedicate this blog to my late Yorkies, Tootsie (8/2009 – 12/2009) and Snuggie (10/2009 – 3/2024). I wouldn’t be who I am today without your unconditional love. I also dedicate this blog to my new fur baby, Rory Doodle, whom we welcomed home in April 2024, who has rejuvenated me with her youth and wonder and reminds me that the four-legged babies before her will always be with me. - Tiffany
I dedicate this blog to the memory of Riley (3/2009 - 6/2021). Riley was a true friend, companion, and, often, comedian who brightened some of the most formative moments of my early career. - Brent
“Leadership is not about being in charge. It’s about taking care of those in your charge.” – Simon Sinek
(Who has taken better care of us humans, than our four-legged friends?)